some crud operations for life

 INSERT INTO life_in_time_and_space

         VALUES (your_heart, your_space);
INSERT INTO life_in_time_and_space
        VALUES (my_heart, my_space);

SELECT you, time, space
   FROM life
WHERE
id=idea_for_life_in_time_and_space
UNION ALL
SELECT me, time, space
   FROM life
WHERE
id=idea_for_life_in_time_and_space;

SELECT life.*,
               you.heart, you.thoughts,
               me.heart, me.thougths
  FROM life
INNER JOIN life_in_time_and_space you ON life.id=you.idea_for_life_in_time_and_space
INNER JOIN life_in_time_and_space me ON life.id=me.idea_for_life_in_time_and_space;

UPDATE life
       SET
us=idea_of_us_in_time_and_space, time=sysdate_with_no_special_formatting, space=somewhere_in_the_Whole_Wide_World_over_the_rainbow_sometimes
WHERE id=idea_of_us;

DELETE
   FROM life
WHERE us=not_in_the_same_time_and_space;